Should i do it?? answers asap plz?

Question:I want to beat some one up because she is saying stuff about my friends and my family and i dont like it I REALLY WANT 2 but i will get suspended and everyone thinks i can't fight and i want to show them that i cani just don't wanna get in trouble...



Answers:
Fighting won't solve any problem you may have with this person, and it will likely cause you more problems (and not just with the person you are angry with).

Learning how to deal with anger and frustration in a constructive way is a big part of growing up. If you can't reason logically with this person about the 'trash talking', then it may be best just to stay away from the person and allow the situtation to die down. She may actually be behaving this way to encourage you to act out... not acting out shows her (and shows you), that you are the mature person. In fact, it may actually bother her more that you don't react in a negative way, than if you did what she expected.

Good luck. Perhaps you should talk with your parents or a respected and trusted adult so that you can work through your anger issues.
ignore it, fighting will get you in trouble with the police.
just a rumour n gossiping, they nor hear or see who cares don't get trouble for such words. words only words
Don't do it. You'll get expelled. If you're going to fight this person, don't do it at school and hope to goodness that he or she won't press charges. Fighting just isn't classy for girls. Have some self- respect.
Well, I would beat them up for saying trashy stuff about my family. And besides if you tell the teachers why you did that in the first place then they shouldn't get mad at you. Nobody should get mad at you because you protected them.
There are MUCH more MATURE ways for letting someone know you don't appricate what they are saying about you or your family&friends. Fighting is not the answer. It will make you look more childish then they do for spreading rumors. Who cares if you can Fight or Not Fight. Fighting has nothing to do with being the bigger person. If you want to be the baby and the one that is immature then sure go ahead and kick butt, but if you want to be the mature, sucessful one then don't fight. Let the person know you don't care what they say cause you know the truth. If they aren't going to get a rise out of you....soon they will stop spreading the rumors and move on to someone else. They are just looking to rise you. Don't let them.

Good luck and I hope you don't choose to fight.
There are gonna be lots of things you don't like people saying in life, but you don't beat them up... girls don't fight, grow up!!

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