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" We adopt the love we surmise we deserve " What does this quote niggardly exactly ?
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People seek what they reason they deserve in a relationship. A wo/man who doesn't feel like s/he deserves respect is potential to end up in a relationship without it because s/he is predisposed to settle and accept that; while others will not.
If you don't love yourself, you can't accept that other inhabitants love you. It's like, well, I know myself better than they know me, so they must be mistaken about me self a lovable person. Conversely, there are conceited people who rebuff the criticism of others, thinking that they know themselves the best, so other people must be mistaken about them being unlovable.
For example, I once told a exceptionally beautiful person that he was elegant. His response? "No." What a miserable life he had.
You get what you earn.
you settle for what you think you deserve in a relationship...
if you dont good opinion yourself highly, you'll settle for some douchebag who treats you badly....
I suppose standards play a huge part in this quote.
It resources if your boyfreind has 6" of love and he only gives you the first 1", next thats all you really wanted or could handle.
It means you've been reading the Perks Of Being A Wallflower.
It also means that population allow themselves to be loved only as they think of themselves. If you have low self esteem, you allow empire to walk all over you, thinking you can't do any better. If you are arrogant, you allow nobody to love you because you believe you are above them... and so forth
Exactly what it sounds like.
It's not a inaccurate quote.
In order to love others you must first love yourself... similar quote
Basically if you don't perceive good about yourself you will close yourself off to others making it much harder for them to love you.
we only accept what we come up with is good enough for us
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